Trigger Stacking: Quiet Doesn't Mean Calm
This class was designed to help equestrians understand confident and withdrawn or shut-down horses on a deeper level. Instead of looking only at behavior, you’ll learn how small stressors can build over time and push a horse past their threshold.
You’ll also learn how to tell the difference between a horse who is quietly confident and a horse who has gone quiet because they are overwhelmed, disconnected, or no longer expressing what they feel.
A confident horse and a shut-down horse may both look “well-behaved” from the outside, but they need very different kinds of support.
If you work with horses in any capacity, knowing the difference is crucial. Enjoy!
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Lesson 1: Introduction
Get a solid grasp of what we’ll cover in this class, including trigger stacking and the difference between horses who are confident and those who are shutting down.
Get a solid grasp of what we’ll cover in this class, including trigger stacking and the difference between horses who are confident and those who are shutting down.
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Lesson 2: Still Doesn't Mean Fine
Taking a closer look at how it’s so easy to mistake stillness for a horse that feels a-ok! We’ll also uncover what it really means to be regulated.
Taking a closer look at how it’s so easy to mistake stillness for a horse that feels a-ok! We’ll also uncover what it really means to be regulated.
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Lesson 3: Digging into Trigger Stacking
What is it, how does it happen, and if so many people know what it is, WHY do we seem it miss it!
What is it, how does it happen, and if so many people know what it is, WHY do we seem it miss it!
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Lesson 5: The Sensory World Your Horse Lives In
Understand the world our horses live in and learn how you can backtrack and put yourself in their hooves to figure out what events lead to spooking.
Understand the world our horses live in and learn how you can backtrack and put yourself in their hooves to figure out what events lead to spooking.
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Lesson 1: The Quiet Confident Horse
Oh, the horse that everyone wants! Learn what it truly looks like when a horse is quiet and confident, and how to support it!
Oh, the horse that everyone wants! Learn what it truly looks like when a horse is quiet and confident, and how to support it!
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Lesson 2: The Quiet, Shut Down Horse
These horses are pretty easy to find. Find out where the shut down comes from - and we’ll chat about the buzzword “learned helplessness”!
These horses are pretty easy to find. Find out where the shut down comes from - and we’ll chat about the buzzword “learned helplessness”!
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Lesson 3: What Quiet Looks Like in the Body
How can you tell if your horse is genuinely calm or waiting anxiously in stillness? Let’s find out!
How can you tell if your horse is genuinely calm or waiting anxiously in stillness? Let’s find out!
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Lesson 4: The Signs of Shut Down
What are the signs of shut down or learned helplessness? Why are they so easy to miss? Why are we so obsessed with “bomb proof” horses? I’ll share my own (scary) experience with a quiet, shut-down horse.
What are the signs of shut down or learned helplessness? Why are they so easy to miss? Why are we so obsessed with “bomb proof” horses? I’ll share my own (scary) experience with a quiet, shut-down horse.
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Lesson 1: Working with the Quiet Willing Horse
These horses are wonderful, but be careful not to overdraft your willingness bank account!
These horses are wonderful, but be careful not to overdraft your willingness bank account!
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Lesson 2: Working with the Shut Down Horse
I adore these horses and I truly “get” them. I think a lot of you do, too. If you own or work with a shut-down horse, this isn’t a space for guilt. It’s a space to expand and learn how to start undoing what’s been done. Let’s figure it out!
I adore these horses and I truly “get” them. I think a lot of you do, too. If you own or work with a shut-down horse, this isn’t a space for guilt. It’s a space to expand and learn how to start undoing what’s been done. Let’s figure it out!
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Lesson 3: The Wrap Up
We can’t force calmness - we rebuild it. You cannot correct a horse into feeling safe, remember that. So, how do we do it?
Thank you for being here, I hope you took so much away from this class!We can’t force calmness - we rebuild it. You cannot correct a horse into feeling safe, remember that. So, how do we do it?
Thank you for being here, I hope you took so much away from this class!
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What You'll Learn
Read Quiet Horses with Clarity
Not every quiet horse is calm, and not every reactive horse is “bad.” You’ll learn how to tell the difference between quiet confidence and quiet shutdown by looking at your horse’s expression, curiosity, recovery time, body tension, and willingness to engage. This gives you a clearer way to understand what your horse needs, instead of guessing based on behavior alone.
Understand Threshold Before the Reaction
Spooks, refusals, bracing, freezing, and blow-ups rarely come out of nowhere. You’ll learn how small stressors stack, how to recognize when your horse is getting closer to threshold, and how to tell whether what you’re doing is helping your horse process or pushing them into overwhelm. This is where you start seeing the moments before the moment.
Know How to Move Forward
Once you can tell what kind of quiet you’re looking at, you can support the horse in front of you more thoughtfully. You’ll learn how to protect the willing, confident horse from being overasked, and how to begin helping the shut-down horse through safety, patience, lower pressure, and small signs of reconnection. You’ll leave with a gentler, clearer path forward.
